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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 10:24

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

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81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

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64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

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22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

If your only job was to make people laugh at you and that’s all you were good for, would you be depressed?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

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How many times do you think you have “made love”?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

Which race of women are the hottest?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

What were some things that the ancient Greeks excelled at compared to the Romans?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

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27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

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54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

Any that are a turn off?

Should women be allowed in “combat roles” within the military?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

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*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

52~ What are your hobbies?

Can someone fall in love with a person they have never met in person, but only through thoughts and imagination?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

Why is Matt Gaetz being investigated but not Sarah (Tim) McBride? Why do we only care about grooming when it's the Republicans doing it?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

What are the cities in England, UK that have trams?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

Any that are a turn off?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

29- How superstitious are you?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

What is your favorite position? Why?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

Family Relation Age Play

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

Would you read them together?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

Nothing too Serious

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

The Ice Breaker Questions

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

*** Random Questions ***

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

Please share Did you stop?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

If yes, what?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

If you win, what will you make them do?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

39~ What are your love languages?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

How old are you? Male or Female?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

*** Questions About Me ***

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

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37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?